The Relational

Alchemy Blog

Honest writing on break-ups, emotional healing

and relationships as portals for inner transformation.

Welcome to a Space of Reflection and Growth

Here, we explore the rawness of break-ups, the depth of relationships, the search for meaning and the hidden patterns of trauma.

Not to fix who we are, but to understand, to evolve and to reconnect with the truth that has always lived within us.

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Articles

Boundaries: The Language of Self-Respect

Boundaries: The Language of Self-Respect

Boundaries: The Language of Self-RespectMariana Puja

Learn why setting healthy boundaries is essential for emotional wellbeing, true connection and self-trust.

RelationshipsInner Alchemy
Not Sure If This Is Your Person? You’re Not Alone.

Not Sure If This Is Your Person? You’re Not Alone.

Not Sure If This Is Your Person? You’re Not Alone.Mariana Puja

Explore the myth of “the one”, ambivalence in modern relationships and how to find clarity through emotional truth, not fantasy.

Relationships
Keeping the Spark Alive: Desire Beyond the Everyday

Keeping the Spark Alive: Desire Beyond the Everyday

Keeping the Spark Alive: Desire Beyond the EverydayMariana Puja

Discover why routine and closeness can impact desire and how to reignite passion and erotic connection in lasting love.

Relationships
Turning Attachment Patterns into Partnership

Turning Attachment Patterns into Partnership

Turning Attachment Patterns into PartnershipMariana Puja

Discover how anxious and avoidant attachment patterns can become a source of balance, growth and connection in romantic relationships.

Relationships